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Modifications for Your Changing Life
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PERSONALIZED GUIDANCE
We provide clear, strategic legal guidance designed to protect your interests and help you move forward with confidence and peace of mind.

EXTENSIVE EXPERIENCE
We draw on extensive family law experience to protect your interests and strategically advocate for the future you’re envisioning.

ADVOCACY FOR CHILDREN
We provide compassionate, strategic advocacy for parents. ensuring the child’s well-being is considered and remains at the heart of every decision.

ASSET PROTECTION
We provide thoughtful, strategic counsel to safeguard your assets and secure the financial foundation for your next chapter.

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CREATIVE SOLUTIONS
We craft creative, customized solutions that honor your family’s unique needs while protecting what matters most.
Choosing an experienced Attorney
Navigating divorce modifications can be overwhelming, but with Hargrave Family Law, you don’t have to face it alone. Our experienced Dallas family law team is dedicated to guiding you through every step of the process, offering the clarity, compassion, and advocacy you need to move forward with confidence. We focus exclusively on family law, helping clients begin anew with dignity and hope. We invite you to schedule a complimentary case evaluation, where our Client Intake Specialist will listen to your concerns, discuss your goals, and help you explore your options—empowering you to make informed decisions and start writing the next chapter of your life.
Dallas Modification Lawyer for Evolving Family Needs
A modification can be essential when life circumstances shift in ways your original Order could not anticipate. Significant changes—such as a parent’s demanding new work schedule, military deployment, relocation, or a health emergency that impacts a parent’s ability to care for their children—may require adjustments to the parenting plan. Updating the Order ensures that your family can transition smoothly into a new arrangement while staying in compliance with Texas law. Formalizing these changes through the Court is critical; relying on an informal agreement can expose both parents to legal risk and create confusion about each person’s rights and responsibilities.
Child support obligations may also need to be modified when financial circumstances change. If a parent experiences a decrease in income or other substantial shift affecting their ability to pay support, the law requires a new Court Order before any adjustment can be made. Modifying payments on your own—even with good intentions—can result in contempt of court and serious consequences, including potential jail time for unpaid support. At Hargrave Family Law, our Dallas family law attorneys take the time to understand your evolving needs and help determine whether a modification is appropriate. We guide you through each step with clarity and care so your parenting plan and support obligations reflect what is best for your family today. Reach out to us to schedule a consultation and explore your options.
additional resources
Don’t Face This Alone
Part of our mission is to offer the resources you need to move forward and reclaim peace. We invite you to explore the wealth of resources and information available from our dedicated Dallas family law team. We’ve listed just a few below.
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2026 Texas Standard Possession Calendar
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When Your Child Doesn’t Want to Go: How to Navigate Holiday Custody Challenges
Learn how to handle holiday custody challenges with empathy. Hargrave Family Law helps parents find co-parenting solutions to preserve peace.
The Truth About 50/50 Custody Laws: Pros, Cons, and Hidden Risks
Dallas divorce lawyer Jennifer Hargrave joins Gordon Deal to talk 50/50 custody laws in Texas. Learn the pros and cons of equal parenting time, child support impacts, and the risks in cases of abuse or high conflict.
Back-to-School Transitions – From Summer Relaxation to School Year Routines
Back-to-school transitions can be tough—especially for children moving between two homes. Learn how Texas custody schedules shift from summer to the school year, and discover practical co-parenting tips to help kids in Dallas, Plano, Frisco, Allen, and McKinney start the school year with confidence and stability.
Who Buys the Backpack? Navigating “Child Support” While Co-Parenting
When “Can you buy me that cool backpack?” sparks a co-parenting dispute, clarity in your parenting plan is key. Learn how Texas child support works, what back-to-school expenses to discuss, and how Dallas parents can prevent conflict before the school year begins.
Strategies You Need to Know When Negotiating Child Support
From understanding guideline child support percentages and net income caps to the common myths around wage withholding, Michelle breaks down the facts and explains what obligors and recipients need to know. The episode also covers the role of the Office of the Attorney General, how to avoid costly enforcement actions, and why it’s crucial to understand your rights and responsibilities—whether you’re paying or receiving support.
How to Talk to Kids About Divorce (Age-Appropriate Scripts & Coping Tools)
Jennifer sits down with Amy Tyson—teacher, mother of three, and author of the children’s book One Princess, Two Castles. Drawing from her personal experience of going through two divorces, Amy shares the heart behind her mission to help parents talk with their children about divorce in a way that is gentle, affirming, and hopeful.
Back-to-School in Two Homes: Joint vs. Sole Custody in Texas
Back-to-School in Two Homes: Joint vs. Sole Custody in Texas. Clarity brings comfort in the form of a strong custody agreement that allows our children to focus on thriving during their school-age years.
Amicable Divorce: Save Your Family | A Mini-Guide From a Dallas Divorce Lawyer
We see it all the time, people entering divorce who are determined to get revenge or make someone suffer. But we know that divorce doesn’t have to be a war especially if…
Stop a High-Conflict Divorce War | Collaborative Divorce Attorney in Dallas
We see it all the time, people entering divorce who are determined to get revenge or make someone suffer. But we know that divorce doesn’t have to be a war especially if…
Child Custody Conflicts: 5 Kid-Focused Challenges
When a marriage ends, it’s often not the house or the finances that spark the fiercest battles—it’s the children.
Divorce Negotiation Strategies: Divorce Without Destruction
Together, they discuss the hidden costs of divorce, common myths, and the pitfalls of traditional litigation. Palmer offers practical advice on shifting mindsets, setting realistic expectations, and embracing collaborative solutions.
What You Should Know About Child Custody Hearings (Keep Your Kids!)
Jennifer sits down with Dr. Susan Fletcher, a renowned psychologist, author, and forensic expert frequently appointed by courts to conduct custody evaluations. Together, they demystify what custody evaluations are, when they’re needed, and how they can impact families navigating divorce.
Gathering Info For Your Divorce Case
Katherine Zimmerman joins Jennifer to demystify one of the most overwhelming parts of the divorce process: gathering information. From financial statements to school records and even social media screenshots, learn what documents truly matter, how to avoid costly mistakes, and why being organized can save you time, money, and stress.
How To Divorce Without Destroying Your Family
You’re considering divorce—what now? You undoubtedly have lots of questions. Is divorce right for your family? Will your children resent you? Will you have enough money to get by each month? While divorce is the end of a relationship, it isn’t the end of your family.
Texas Divorce Checklist: Prepare for Your Case
Walking through a divorce can be such a challenging and overwhelming process. Preparing adequately can empower you to manage the emotional, legal, and logistical complexities involved.
Here’s a checklist with steps you can take to guide you through preparing for your divorce journey.
Texas Child Support: Navigating Complex Situations
Dallas family law attorney Jennifer Hargrave to discuss the complexities of child support, especially in cases involving multiple children from different relationships.
2025 Texas Standard Possession Calendar
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Navigating Co-Parenting During Summer Vacation
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When Your Teenage Child Refuses to Visit a Non-Custodial Parent
Divorce can bring about a lot of emotions and adjustments, especially when it comes to co-parenting. One common challenge many divorced parents face is when their teenager begins refusing to visit the non-custodial parent. Let’s delve into this complex issue and explore some steps you can take with empathy and understanding.
What happens to your child support if you change jobs?
Jennifer Hargrave was recently on The James Parker Show to discuss child support modifications. Jennifer and James discussed moving, intent, and how much someone might owe in monthly payments.
Grounds for Divorce in Texas
While you can now get a divorce without proving fault in the break up of the marriage, it is important to know that “grounds for divorce” still exist in Texas. But, it is no longer necessary to prove who was at fault for the break-up of the marriage in order to get a divorce. The purpose of this article is to review the “grounds” for divorce in Texas, and the strategic reasons why a party may or may not want to allege grounds.
Guide to Texas Child Custody Evaluations
Not every case involving children requires a child custody evaluation, as most parents are able to agree between themselves what is best for their children. But there are situations where having the opinion of a neutral expert trained and qualified to conduct child custody evaluations can be incredibly helpful, as the evaluator has the opportunity to do a deep dive into the child’s relationship with the caregivers, the home environment, the child’s preferences, special needs of the child, mental health of the parties and/or child, and the ability of the parents to provide for this specific child’s needs.
How to Prepare for a Custody Hearing?
Are you wondering how to prepare for a custody hearing? Here are 5 considerations to help you from our founding attorney, Jennifer Hargrave.
The Essential Guide for Texas Child Support Laws
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Co‑Parenting Challenges & Issues
“Opposites attract”, they say and this can make parenting difficult, especially when you and your partner can’t agree on anything. Then you throw in a divorce or a separation and that makes co-parenting all that much more challenging. My guest today, Brad Craig, knows all about the challenges of co-parenting. He is the creator of a program called Children in the Middle and also the author of Between Two Homes. He’s here today to talk with us about the challenges that parents face, how they can overcome those challenges, and really make decisions that are in the best interest of their children.
FAQ
Have questions? we have answers
Will my spouse find out if I contact a divorce attorney?
The fact that you have reached out to contact a divorce attorney is privileged information and should remain protected. If you are concerned that your communications are being monitored, you need to bring that to your attorney’s attention right away, so we can help you protect your communication for that initial contact. I would recommend that you go ahead and use a phone that your spouse doesn’t have access to. If you have a phone at work or a friend’s phone, that can be helpful. Also, you may want to set up another email account that you can use for communication with your attorney. We want to make sure that all of your communication throughout the divorce process remains privileged and protected.
What grounds do I need to file for divorce (in Texas)?
In the state of Texas, couples no longer have to go through the painful process of proving grounds in order to get a divorce. In fact, Texas is a no-fault state, which means you simply have to show that the marriage has become insupportable, or in other words, the marriage is broken. Does that mean there aren’t reasons for the divorce? Of course not. There are always reasons for divorce. We no longer have to prove those reasons. At Hargrave Family Law, we know if you’ve been living in a broken marriage, it’s been a painful journey, and we want to help you bring us into that journey so you can start the next chapter of your life.
What is collaborative divorce?
A collaborative divorce allows couples who are beginning the divorce process to make the commitment to each other that they’re going to work together to resolve the issues that need to be settled. Instead of going to court and litigating the issues in front of the judge, they’re going to work with a team of dedicated professionals, including their lawyers, a mental health professional, and a financial professional who are all committed to helping them reach a final resolution. We find that our clients who engage in the collaborative divorce process enjoy the perfect privacy it provides for their families, and they enjoy the control. So there isn’t somebody else who’s making these decisions for them. And they also enjoy a stronger co-parenting relationship after the divorce is finalized.
Can I modify my custody agreement?
In the state of Texas, it is possible to modify the provisions of the original order. In order to do so, we need to show the court that there’s been a material and substantial change in circumstances. This applies whenever we’re changing child support.
- If somebody’s got a new job, and they’re making a significant amount of money, then it may be time to modify.
- If a parent has moved out of state, it may be time to modify the possession schedule,
- or if the parents are no longer able to reach agreements for any number of reasons regarding important aspects of the child’s care, then again, that may be time to modify.
In order to determine whether you’re eligible for a modification, you’ll need to meet with an attorney and see if your circumstances meet the threshold requirements in order to request the court for change, or the parties may simply agree to the changes in which case most of the time, the court will adopt those changes.
I’m concerned my spouse will be abusive to our kids, what can I do?
If there has been any history of abuse in your home, whether that abuse has been directed against you or your children or any other family member for that matter, you need to take steps to put a safety plan in place as you prepare to leave your marriage.
We know that the decision to divorce is a very difficult one, especially if you’ve been in an abusive relationship. We also know that there is a heightened risk associated with the decision to divorce. We’re going to help protect you and make sure that there are safety measures in place so that you don’t have to risk hurting yourself or your children in the divorce process.
How can I tell my spouse I want a divorce?
Having decided you want a divorce, your first big challenge is how to break the news to your spouse. Check the post, Honey, I want a Divorce for tips on making the divorce conversation easier.
How long does it take to get divorced (in Texas)?
In Texas, just because you file for divorce doesn’t mean you have to get a divorce. Sometimes couples are able to reconcile in the divorce process. If that’s something that you think might be an option, we want to know that early on, so we can help you select a process that provides the space for that to happen. And we can also put you in touch with resources that we think may be helpful.
You can also read te post How long does it take to get divorced in Texas?
Will my spouse find out if I contact a divorce attorney?
The fact that you have reached out to contact a divorce attorney is privileged information and should remain protected. If you are concerned that your communications are being monitored, you need to bring that to your attorney’s attention right away, so we can help you protect your communication for that initial contact. I would recommend that you go ahead and use a phone that your spouse doesn’t have access to. If you have a phone at work or a friend’s phone, that can be helpful. Also, you may want to set up another email account that you can use for communication with your attorney. We want to make sure that all of your communication throughout the divorce process remains privileged and protected.
What grounds do I need to file for divorce (in Texas)?
In the state of Texas, couples no longer have to go through the painful process of proving grounds in order to get a divorce. In fact, Texas is a no-fault state, which means you simply have to show that the marriage has become insupportable, or in other words, the marriage is broken. Does that mean there aren’t reasons for the divorce? Of course not. There are always reasons for divorce. We no longer have to prove those reasons. At Hargrave Family Law, we know if you’ve been living in a broken marriage, it’s been a painful journey, and we want to help you bring us into that journey so you can start the next chapter of your life.
What is collaborative divorce?
A collaborative divorce allows couples who are beginning the divorce process to make the commitment to each other that they’re going to work together to resolve the issues that need to be settled. Instead of going to court and litigating the issues in front of the judge, they’re going to work with a team of dedicated professionals, including their lawyers, a mental health professional, and a financial professional who are all committed to helping them reach a final resolution. We find that our clients who engage in the collaborative divorce process enjoy the perfect privacy it provides for their families, and they enjoy the control. So there isn’t somebody else who’s making these decisions for them. And they also enjoy a stronger co-parenting relationship after the divorce is finalized.
Can I modify my custody agreement?
In the state of Texas, it is possible to modify the provisions of the original order. In order to do so, we need to show the court that there’s been a material and substantial change in circumstances. This applies whenever we’re changing child support.
- If somebody’s got a new job, and they’re making a significant amount of money, then it may be time to modify.
- If a parent has moved out of state, it may be time to modify the possession schedule,
- or if the parents are no longer able to reach agreements for any number of reasons regarding important aspects of the child’s care, then again, that may be time to modify.
In order to determine whether you’re eligible for a modification, you’ll need to meet with an attorney and see if your circumstances meet the threshold requirements in order to request the court for change, or the parties may simply agree to the changes in which case most of the time, the court will adopt those changes.
I’m concerned my spouse will be abusive to our kids, what can I do?
If there has been any history of abuse in your home, whether that abuse has been directed against you or your children or any other family member for that matter, you need to take steps to put a safety plan in place as you prepare to leave your marriage.
We know that the decision to divorce is a very difficult one, especially if you’ve been in an abusive relationship. We also know that there is a heightened risk associated with the decision to divorce. We’re going to help protect you and make sure that there are safety measures in place so that you don’t have to risk hurting yourself or your children in the divorce process.
How can I tell my spouse I want a divorce?
Having decided you want a divorce, your first big challenge is how to break the news to your spouse. Check the post, Honey, I want a Divorce for tips on making the divorce conversation easier.
How long does it take to get divorced (in Texas)?
In Texas, just because you file for divorce doesn’t mean you have to get a divorce. Sometimes couples are able to reconcile in the divorce process. If that’s something that you think might be an option, we want to know that early on, so we can help you select a process that provides the space for that to happen. And we can also put you in touch with resources that we think may be helpful.
You can also read te post How long does it take to get divorced in Texas?








